couth

1. N-UNCOUNT If you say that someone has couth, you mean that they have good manners and sophistication. 教養(yǎng); 禮貌[美國英語]

Benny, you have no couth. 班尼，你真沒教養(yǎng)。

2. N-UNCOUNT If you describe a person or their behaviour as couth, you mean that they are polite and sophisticated. 雅士; 彬彬有禮

That's the message, only put in a far more couth way. 這就是要傳達的信息，只是需要以一種更加彬彬有禮的方式表示出來。